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Many dads take a long time to recover before they are ready to date again after divorce; and some are ready within a few weeks or months.But when you are ready to start dating and developing relationships again, the dating scene for a divorced dad is loaded with pitfalls.How you avoid such situations is a question that should be asked of a therapist or another professional who is experienced and educated on the issue of dating and relationships.However, you may find that common sense is the single most important weapon you have in avoiding relationship mistakes during your divorce that could actually hurt your child custody case.It is not unusual during a divorce case for the husband or the wife to start dating and even get serious about a new mate.
You may be surprised to realize that there are aspects of your ex that you want again or perhaps characteristics that were not important before but are now.
That is because “(a) (1) Except as otherwise agreed to by the parties in writing, there is a rebuttable presumption, affecting the burden of proof, of decreased need for spousal support if the supported party is cohabiting with a nonmarital partner.
Upon a determination that circumstances have changed, the court may modify or terminate the spousal support as provided for in Chapter 6 (commencing with Section 3650) of Part 1.
For me, my ex was never a match for me physically (I’m not talking about intimacy here; we were an excellent match in the bedroom).
I loved to run and lift weights, and enjoyed the social aspect of exercise, whereas he only exercised to lose weight and even then was very private about it.
Consider whether you should know the person’s relevant history and past as it may become a factor in the child custody case.